Journal entries: 05/12/04 to 05/21/04 - 05/21/04 to 05/27/04
 
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5/21/04 - entry by Kate CCS House
It has been very difficult to keep a daily journal. We have had zero time to stop and breathe- let alone reflect on what we have done!

5/18/04
- entry by Kate
CCS House - Kate’s Disclaimer:
Please remember that I am very busy here and I’m not going to be doing any editing. What you are reading is what is spilling onto the keyboard. I’m trying to learn Chinese and teaching children who are trying to learn English and I have found that my thoughts are all fragmented and come out very stilted- and besides, I’m not a writer, I’m just a traveler!


What do you say to a second grader who asks, “Why is the U.S. at war with Iraq?”

We had our first day of class yesterday. I was fully recovered from all the food at the wedding and very excited to go to school



We first met with all the English Teachers at the Primary School. We are at the Xi’an Primary School, “the only provincial key primary school in Shaanxi, has 1800 pupils in six different grades. There are 80 staff members among which 11 are English teachers. The school offers various courses such as Chinese, Math, English, PE, Art, Music and so on.”
We met with the English teachers in a semi-formal room with detailed tiled ceilings; somewhat comfortable looking stuffed chairs and glass coffee tables. The furniture was pushed to the perimeter of the room so the middle was an open space. Kaitlin and I sat in one corner and I felt a little removed from everything that was going on. The vice principal addressed us in Chinese which was translated by one of the English teachers. I have a feeling there was a lot of information ‘Lost in Translation.’ All of the teachers, including the vice principal, were women- all in their 20’s and early 30’s, and all very stylishly dressed. After the introduction, we were led to an office and given desks to use. We then went to a fourth grade English class- taught by a woman named Christine- I’m not sure what her Chinese name is. This class is an immersion class, which means that it is entirely in English. The students began class with the teacher picking a student in the class and her classmates are supposed to tell things about her, like, “Eva’s favorite animal is a dog.” Each student has an English name, which is chosen for them by their teacher in the first grade. The teachers travel with their classes throughout their time at the primary school- so they will always have the same English teacher.

After about 10 minutes of describing Eva, they then began recitation. This is the basis upon which most of the class is structured. The teacher counts, “1, 2” and the students begin reciting a memorized story. This one was about David- who lives in Miami and speaks Spanish. This is all done in choral style. After they finish the story, which is several paragraphs long, the teacher calls on students to recite a sentence or two on their own. Every student is very eager to be called on and there are many hands raised and not the usual reluctance to participate, which you would find in an American School. If a teacher sees that a student is goofing off or not paying attention, she will call on him and ask him what they are talking about and then he has to stand until she says he can sit down.

The classroom is set up with tables of 2- 4 across making 4 columns with 2 aisles, so the middle 2 tables are pushed together so there are four students sitting right together in a row- 8 students total per row. There are 60-70 children per class and the space is quite tight. Kaitlin and I sat in the back on tiny, little, wooden stools. 12:20 pm

1:40pm
We then went to a second grade class. These students were so little and so cute! Our teacher introduced us to the class and asked them if they had any questions. They were very eager to know about us and asked questions like, “What is your favorite food?”
“ What is your favorite color?”
“ What is your favorite animal?” and
“ Why is the US at war with Iraq?”
To this we said, “That is a very good question, but very hard to answer.”

The teacher then asked us to teach them a song. We were going to teach them, “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” but they already knew it. We then tried to teach them, “Old MacDonald Had a Farm” but they knew that too. Finally we discovered that they did not know, “The Itsy, Bitsy Spider” and so we taught them that with the hand motions- they especially loved the part when the spider was washed out. It took about ten minutes to teach them the song and they all caught on right away. Class ended and we went home for lunch. Most of the students go home for lunch as well- those who don’t, bring their lunch and eat it in the classroom. The teachers eat in a dining room.

After lunch we returned to school and hung out in the teacher’s office. We spoke with Christine and some of the other teachers- going over difficult words in English, talking about school in the U.S. They were interested in students traveling with their class. In China, the government is very protective of its children and does not think they would be safe traveling- so any time spent away from home is with the family on holiday (yes, this is what we were told). Christine also tried to teach us Chinese words like- delicious “hao chi” which literally means, “good eat.” Hello in Chinese is “ni hao” which means “you good.” No is “bu”, yes is “dui.” Goodbye is “zai jian.” There are 4 different tones in Chinese that reflect what kind of inflection is required, a word could have two totally different meanings, depending on the inflection. Thank you is “xie xie” which is roughly pronounced “Shay Shay.”

After conversing with the teachers for a while, a group of students came in and wanted to show us a performance of “Little Red Riding Hood.” They are preparing it for Children’s Day on June 1st. The teachers left and it was just me and Kaitlin with this group of 5th graders. Their performance was wonderful! Their English was excellent and they were all such great little storytellers. Each kid was very funny- hamming it up for the audience. They came up with the script themselves and added many embellishments in order to develop the characters and add more comedy. We went over different scenes with them, offering suggestions to change blocking to make the action more clear and made vocabulary and grammar corrections. These kids were very bright and incredibly quick at picking up new things. At one point they asked Kaitlin and I to act out a scene for them- I’m not sure if we did it the way they wanted, but I’m sure they were amused. The time flew quickly and before we knew it, it was 4:30.

We had a feedback meeting with Jerome last night- everyone shared their experiences. Alicia’s placement is at a deaf and blind school- her classes are much smaller. We had another delicious dinner and all watched, “Something’s Gotta Give” definitely a movie for the parents.

The DVD collection here is awesome and very current. DVDs are about 10 yuan, which is roughly $1.20. You can pretty much buy any movie that is on screen in the US- Alicia bought “Troy” yesterday, less than a week after its release.
2:00pm


5/15/04 - entry by Alicia Xi'an -This morning I woke up at 2am and tossed and turned (darn jet lag) until Kate and I got out of bed at 6am. I took my first shower in a Chinese bathroom. There is no tub only a shower head attached to the bathroom wall and a drain somewhere in the bathroom, so when you are showering the whole floor gets wet but drains off and dries pretty quickly.
Mrs. Li made us breakfast which is not traditional Chinese. There is yogurt, fried dough, rolls, and muffins. She also makes us fried eggs which definitely is American. We meet Jocelyn today and go to the countryside to her aunty and uncles house. Mr. Yang fearlessly navigates and Lin tells us the lines on the road are just suggestions.

It is tradition to bring the family fruits and vegetables so we stop at a market in the Shaanxi province. Here everyone is staring at the westerns and very obviously. They sell everything you could imagine in the line of fruits, vegetables, and spices. There are tons of people there even though it is not technically a market day. Shaanxi is famous for their spicy peppers and there are many stones turning round and round to grind the peppers up.


(photo by Kate DiMarco)



Once back in the van we set off. There are beautiful mountains looming on the horizon. In some of them there are mud caves where the poorest people used to live but now farmers use them to rest in during the long hot days.
Once we arrive in the village we get out and explore. You are free to look through our pictures- there are tons of them.
We learn so much about Chinese culture and a village’s society:

You can tell a families wealth by their well- they range from holes in the ground where you put a bucket in attached to a rope or the more wealthy families have pumps.
Many families live in on one property. The one we visited has a house built into the hill, where the elder members of the family would live because it is cooler in the summer and hotter in the winter.
Families grow most of their own vegetables and left-overs might be sold at the market.

After eating our feast at Jocelyn’s uncle’s house we explore Xi’an. We go to the Bell Tower, which is the center of the city, where the main roads meet and circle around. You can pay five yuan and ring the bell, so of course you do. The first time is for happiness, 2nd for health, and the 3rd for luck. We went inside and watched and musical performance of people playing bells and other instruments that were all new to me. We climbed the tower where you can get a great view of the city.

Next we walked to the drum tower which is near Muslim quarter. It had the same look as bell tower only there were lots of drums which represented different things. We then walked to Muslim quarter and to the Great Mosque. The Great Mosque is a truly beautiful place, a quiet peaceful place nestled in a bustling city.

Taking a taxi back was interesting it was rush hour but finally we butted in line and jumped in a taxi which drove us back to our apartment after a tiring day. After dinner we unpacked some more but at 8:30 we went to bed (Probably to the earliest I’ve been to bed in a long time)

5/15/04 - entry by Kate Wedding Traditions


  • Bride prepares with her family in her home
  • Her shoes are hidden in the house
  • There is much anticipation for the arrival of the groom
  • The bride is wearing a white gown and her feet cannot touch the floor- she sits on the bed.
  • The groom, with all of his friends, pounds on the door and demands to be let in the house
    He bursts in with much excitement
  • He then has to break down the door to the bride’s room- but they have to do a retake so they can film it
  • All of his friends provide much support and there is a great feeling of happiness and joy
  • The groom presents the bride with a beautiful bouquet of flowers
    Everything is filmed and a man walks around with a bright light
  • The groom and his friends search for the shoes- which are hidden separately
  • The best man and the maid of honor exchange flowers
  • If the shoes are not found, they will have to borrow the maid of honor’s shoes
  • The groomsman offers the maid of honor money to tell them where the shoes are
  • She feels the pile of money to see how much and decides it is not enough
  • The groom eats from a bowl of steaming hot soup- it contains: bitter- sugar- spice- sour- to symbolize that you must accept all things in life
  • The shoes are found! Silly string is sprayed on the groom. Now the bride can walk
  • They proceed out of the bedroom and pose for photos with the bride’s mother and father and niece and then the pictures with the Americans
  • There is much deliberation and mock protestation from the groom- before he sweeps her off her feet and carries her down the stair to the outside (4 floors down!)
  • Meanwhile- the groomsmen set off a deafening array of firecrackers- which accompany them on their trip down the stairs- they emerge in a puff of smoke
  • The fireworks were also set off to announce the arrival of the groom
  • They depart in a Lexus decorated with flowers and teddy bears
  • There is a line of decorated cars that follows them- ahead of their car is a van with the back door open- the film crew is filming the procession of cars
  • Wedding days are calculated according to the lunar calendar- they can be any day of the week- once the lucky day is determined- the preparation begins
  • As we drive along and try to keep up- we see many, many, many other wedding processions- flowers on cars- vans with back doors open- filming everything
  • The traffic is so heavy it is hard to keep up!
  • We are going to the new house of the bride and groom
  • We arrive at their new apartment and it is lovely- newly appointed and very modern
  • The bride and groom had posed for many pictures of them in wedding clothes- Japanese tradition- Chinese tradition and Western clothes
  • The Groom’s Family is waiting at the new home
  • They give us a tour and the bride and groom sit on the bed and go through their wedding album
  • Pictures are taken with the groom’s family. And the random Americans
  • We then head to the reception - See Alicia’s entry for that info.,..

5/14/04 10:20pm- entry by Kate CCS House in Xi’an
We are finally here. We arrived at the airport without a problem. The first person we met was Kiki and then Mr. Yang (Young), our driver. The car ride from the airport was about 30 minutes. The highway system is very modern and looks very much like that in America. It is very well kept- with tollbooths, and the shoulders are landscaped with pretty roses. We passed mostly farmland - very flat - there were tree farms and other fields of very green crops. There were also a few huge, beautiful sculptures along the way. Kiki is very nice - she’s a student at University, studying English and Business Administration - she graduates in June and will spend a year in England for her Masters.

The drive through the city was great. Traffic is disorganized chaos, with very few stoplights and apparently anything goes when you wish to pass the person in front of you- including swerving into the oncoming traffic or into the bike lane! There are bicycles everywhere - motorcycles too.

We arrived at the house and met Jocelyn, Jane, Jerome (our fearless leader), Mrs. Li (she takes care of us), and Mr. Zhao (our cook). We were given a tour of the apartments and fed a wonderful meal - I was so hungry and it was soooo good - rice, mushrooms & cucumbers, snap peas w/ginger, pork balls w/greens, cabbage and some sort of sweet millet with dates for dessert. Then everyone left and we met Lin - who is also a volunteer and a student at Duke. She’ll be here until Friday and is a fountain of information. We all went for a walk around the block and tried not to get lost. Something about the streets at night reminded me of Bamako, Mali - people gathered on the sidewalk - low lighting - something like that. We returned, unpacked and tried to watch “big Fish” on DVD - but we all fell asleep! More tomorrow after we visit the country.

The country trip is a photo documentary…
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5/14/04 - entry by Alicia Xi'an - I slept through the night until 1am and then tossed and turned the rest of the night, I think my body knew it was supposed to be up. Once we all were awake we took showers and got ready for our trip to Xi’an. Our hotel was more western than we imagined, when turning on the TV there was mostly English channels and old episodes of Oprah and the current American Idol.

We ate very large croissants for breakfast (who knew they had them in China). We walked around the block bordering our hotel. It was our first taste of a street in China. There were people everywhere, on bikes and carts driven by men, and playing on the playground. Many of them stared at the three out of place westerns.

The shuttle to the airport showed more people on roadways and bikes everywhere. At the airport getting our baggage checked was the next trial. Some random man directed us to a random check-in place where they told us it was “too early” to check in. We went back and stood with our stuff in front of the map of the airport.

It was actually really interesting to observe everything that was going on. There were many tours, they followed someone with a flag and they all wore the same color hat- mostly yellow. They seemed like senior citizen tour groups. All of the women in the airport were dressed very professionally, with stylish suits or dresses and high heels.

Finally we got to check our luggage and we set off for security, which tells us we need to go back and pay the airport tax. We did not really understand what we were doing but we paid the airport tax and headed back to security. When passing through security the lady sniffed my water and confiscated my scissors (child scissors (non pointy) that looked like a pig that I did not know were in my bad but got through security at JFK) They were very confused about Kaitlin’s inhaler and we had to show them how to use it. No one spoke English so it was all non-verbal communication.

Finally we sit and wait for our plane. I wonder what Xi’an will be lie. What more excitement and adventures can be there, I just cannot wait to finally get there and be settled. I don’t know what can be waiting for me once we are finally there and I almost don’t want to ruin the mystery by predicting.

Upon arrival at Xi’an Kate, Kaitlin, and I meet Kiki and Mr. Yang (Young). Kiki is a student intern at a university and Mr. Yang is the driver. Let me tell you I do not envy his job because in the 30 minutes it took to get from the airport to our apartment & Xi’an’s walls I realized that there are NO traffic laws in China and everyone (cars, busses, trucks, bikes, and people) are everywhere and want to get someplace as fast as you.

In the 30 minute drive it was fun to observe the countryside. All the crops planted in straight rows and people were tending to them. People were all outside of the shops, they were either working or hanging around enjoying the time. Every once in a while we would pass a sculpture on the highway, some beautiful towering piece of artwork. Once nearing the city walls the traffic got worse and there was so much to pay attention to. People were in stores, cramped in busses, zig zagging in and out of traffic on bikes, and everyone everywhere.

Finally we arrived at our new home. We live in the 9th floor in an upper middle class apartment building. It has a spacious living room with orange couches and there is a TV with bootlegged DVDs galore. Our rooms have bunk beds, Kate and I are sharing a room with a huge window that overlooks a middle school. We have a table with two wicker chairs and our room is right next to Kaitlin’s room.

Next we go down to the 8th floor where we meet all the staff for the first time. Everyone is so nice and welcoming. A feast in waiting for us and we dig right in. Everything is so delicious and fresh and I am so hungry. We hear our schedule for the week and realize we are going to be really busy every day! They take us back up to our apartment and give us a brief orientation to everything and then they leave and the 3 of us sit on the couch- I’m feeling a tad bit like I don’t know what to do next.
We hear the door open and Lin appears, she is a student at Duke and doing research. Sadly she will only be hear until Friday. She has been placed at my school and tells us about all she has learned so far. We decide that we want to take a walk around the neighborhood but Lin doesn’t know where we are going so we take a map.

There are some children playing in the courtyard and you have to walk through gates to get onto the street. There are still a lot of people out. Lots of people are staring at us but we walk on. They are eating at hole in the wall restaurants all serving some dish that I have never seen before. We pass many places to get your head and feet massaged for actually really cheap. One place had all these fancy neon lights and you think it would be a hotel or something but it is a foot massaging place.
We went only the way Lin knew so we wouldn’t get lost. We walked by the bank where we can exchange money and passed several more shops, mostly conveince stores or ones selling random items. The streets are kind of littered and there is a lot of dust We continue our walk and talk about how new everything is. We get back to our apartment and watch a DVD but fall quickly to sleep.

It is my first night sleeping on my top bunk in China. So much has happened in the last 48 hours and there is so much more still to be taken in. Everything seems new and different in China which can only lead to lots of adventures and fun.

5/14/2004 - entry by Kate Beijing Airport - Well, we made it here in one piece. Survived a 13 1/2 hour flight from JFK to Beijing. Survived baby puke and rubbery chicken. Survived dehydration and turning into popsicles due to an under eager flight crew and over eager air conditioner. Avoided random blood clots in legs. I did not sleep much on the plane. Alicia woke up after sleeping for 4 1/2 hours and said, “I don’t think this sleeping pill is working.” I just laughed at her. Once we landed, we made it through customs and had a bit of trouble finding the hotel shuttle- but we found it eventually and were on our way to the Sino-Swiss Hotel. It was a very nice hotel and the perfect place to recover from jet lag.

Our room was extremely comfortable and I fell asleep quickly. This morning I woke up at 5 am, but all of my limbs were still asleep. I read and slept until we all got up at 8:45, an hour before the alarm went off. This does not happen to me at home…
We turned on the TV and were surprised to find a Spanish Channel, “Oprah”, and a Chinese kid’s program in English. Oh, and commercials for the current “American Idol”, although a few weeks behind schedule.

We packed our stuff, went to the lobby and had huge croissants, took a walk down the street around the hotel (our first taste of real China) and boarded the shuttle to go back to the airport. We’re now waiting for our flight to Xi’an (Roughly- Shee-ahn) to board. I just bought an 8 oz Evian for $2.50 (25 RNB).

The currency exchange is about 8.21 RNB (Renminbi - referred to as yuan) to US$1.00. Our experience in the hotel was not very Chinese as it was very Western in operation. Everything was expensive - water was $2.20 for 16 oz. Beijing airport is very modern - it opened in the late 90’s and I think is one of the reasons they are hosting the Olympics in 2008. The people are also very modern - the women are very nicely dressed, with heels, pressed suits or blouses and pants. Almost no jeans. I guess it makes sense considering all of our modern clothing is manufactured here.

Everyone has a cell phone and yes, my phone works here! I have better coverage in Beijing than I do in my apartment in NY. We’ll see how it goes in Xi’an.

I’m very excited to get there and settle in. To meet everyone and start exploring the city. I also have to work on my lesson plans. I’m working in a primary school and not a day care (which I expected). It should be a lot of fun and hard work.
1:30 Beijing time (1:30 am NY time)

5/13/04 - entry by Alicia Beijing Airport
Today we landed in Beijing. After landing we went through the health inspection, which was just giving an official a previously filled out card with the address where you are staying. We went through customs which was just giving your passport to be stamped (finally a stamp on my new passport!) After both of those I was expecting something else but all we did was get our bags and walk out. Overall the whole process was much less than I expected.
Getting our bags was the same commotion as in the US, everyone crowding around the conveyor belt. Several men dressed in red and yellow striped uniforms offered to help but they said we insisted on carrying our baggage ourselves- the “hard way.”
Finding our shuttle to the Sino-Swiss Hotel was our next challenge. Many cab drivers directed us to different places and then insisted that this was too hard and we should take their cab- or at least that is what is appeared to be they all we shouting things in Chinese to us. Now would have been the time where I wish I knew more Chinese than only 3 words. We were surrounded by people offering us rides but we knew there was a shuttle to our hotel. Finally someone directed us the right way and there it was our shuttle with a man holding a sign that said “Ms. DiMarco.”
On the shuttle to the hotel I kept thinking, “this is China, I’m finally here.” There were so many people everywhere, on bikes, motorcycles, or walking around. The roads were extremely bumpy but in the darkness it did not look to much different from home.

Our hotel was very western and checking in was easy because they spoke English. Our next challenge was whether or not to tip the bellman because we didn’t know if they tipped in China, so we gave him 5 yuan (like $.80) -We later realized that no one tips in China!

Our room was very cozy and we each had our own bed. After drinking some tea, Kate, Kaitlin, (a volunteer who traveled with us from NY) and I crashed in our beds and fell fast asleep from our first day in China.

May 13, 2004 - the girls stay overnight in Beijing then fly on to Xi'an located in Central China.

May 12, 2004 - Kate and Alicia leave New York City flying JFK to Beijing non-stop. Thirteen and a half hours in the air.

Journal entries: 05/12/04 to 05/21/04 - 05/21/04 to 05/27/04

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